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If you have to lower your standards to win, you’re not really winning.

Why I Talk About My Virginity On First Dates

Here’s the thing about faking it: eventually, the truth comes out, or someone gets hurt. So I'm going to talk about my virginity on first dates! Read...
Karis Rogerson    |   09.22.17   |   SHARE
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He does not deserve praise for loving me despite my fat.

My Husband Does Not Get An Award For Loving Me Despite My Fat

If your partner does not love you because you are fat, that has nothing to do with your fat and everything to do with them being an ass. Read...
joni edelman, RN   |   09.21.17   |   SHARE
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I hadn't been called "Ma'am" by someone I was dating until I moved to the South.

Southern Hospitality: Sex & Dating In The South

This California girl has been living down South and enjoying all of its southern hospitality. It’s been an interesting experience, to say the least. Read...
Annette Richmond    |   09.21.17   |   SHARE
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I had officially lost the battle but here's what you can do.

What To Do When His Mom Doesn’t Like You From Day One

I tried my best to impress and please. I worked on the farm, helped in the kitchen, and tried emphasizing all the other reasons Mick was in New York Read...
Emily Rekstis    |   09.20.17   |   SHARE
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Saying cis-men want more sex and women want less straight up shames us ALL.

Saying Men Want More Sex & Women Want Less Shames Us All

By saying all people who identify as women want less sex and men want more, you’re grossly generalizing two large groups in a way that is both Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.19.17   |   SHARE
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After learning things the hard way we realized that many people do the online profile bait-and-switch.

From Monogamy To Open Marriage: Online Profile Bait-And-Switch

After too many disappointing dates, we have learned to read between the lines. If you are exploring non-monogamy and you’ve considered playing with Read...
Eva Giunto    |   09.13.17   |   SHARE
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People love giving me advice but I'm begging you, these are things I never want to hear again.

8 Things I Never Want To Hear, Ever Again

As a person who writes about relationships for a living, I might be one of the people least in need of all this well-meaning advice, which usually Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   09.13.17   |   SHARE
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I'm Into Vanilla Sex — Why Does That Make Me Weird?

Honestly, I’d say about 90% of the sex I have in my long-term monogamous relationship is “vanilla.” We are, believe it or not, a normal couple who Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.12.17   |   SHARE
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