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Ask Erin: I Don't Like My Friends

I’ve come to the uncomfortable realization that I no longer feel like spending any time with my friends. Any of them.  Read...
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Ask Erin: I Can't Handle The Sexual Dynamics Of My Relationship

Why can’t I be happy with someone who cares about me even if the sex isn’t what I’d like? Or is this the relationship dynamic?  Read...
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Ask Erin: I'm Going Through A Breakup With An STD Diagnosis

Two days after my diagnosis, she broke things off with me. Then she ghosted me  — basically ignored me and told me to figure my life out by myself. Now I had a serious emotional setback along with an incurable STD.  Read...
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Ask Erin: I'm Scared About Coming Out As Transgender Later In Life

I am transgender — MtF — and 59 years old.. Even if I have all the necessary procedures and surgeries, will I be accepted into the club as a woman?

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Ask Erin: How Can I Set Boundaries With My Online Friend?

Why do we have a hard time with boundaries? Many of us, especially women, were raised to be people-pleasers and caregivers.

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Ask Erin: My Fiancé Feels Like A Roommate 

I feel like he is a roommate. It's not that we don't kiss or have sweet moments, but it's not enough.

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Ask Erin: I Need Help With My Anger Issues

For me, getting angry is really easy, and to get out of anger is really difficult. This has brought me problems with all the people around me.

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Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez

Ask Erin: My Fiancé Ghosted Me

Being ghosted sucks. Being ghosted when you’re in an actual relationship is even worse.

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