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The Silent Grief Of Secret Illness

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Illness is intensely personal, but it never affects the person diagnosed alone.

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We All Liked Problematic Stuff As Kids, But We Don’t Have To Pass Them On

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To knowingly include stories with deeply problematic themes strikes me as just adding fuel to the fire.

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Why I Will Never Tell My Son To “Man Up”

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When our boy was a toddler his emotional outbursts only received quick glances. Now that my five-year-old has officially entered boyhood, his crying looks awkward on him; he gets full-on stares.

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4 Stages Of Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse

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Recovery from narcissistic abuse comes in stages. The early stages are chaotic and, at times, you feel as if you have no control over your recovery.

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Breaking Up With My Narcissistic Father

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This self-absorbed womanizer is my narcissistic father. And many of us have them.

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Take The Cake: Is ‘Dieting’ Really Disordered Eating?

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It’s taken me a long time to write about this topic because I’m not an eating disorder specialist or clinician.

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What Is Chronic Fatigue Syndrome? 9 Things To Watch For If You're Tired All The Time

The kind of lethargic, extreme fatigue that leaves you exhausted to your very core might be caused by what is known as chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS).

The kind of lethargic, extreme fatigue that leaves you exhausted to your very core might be caused by what is known as chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS).

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Take The Cake: Love Letter To The Fat Babe At The Club

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I hadn't been to a club like this one — the kind full of straight men who are probably homophobic and at least a little coercive, who smell like Old Spice deodorant and have enough disposable income to keep an open tab (the kind of men I'd been taught were "a catch") — for a very, very long time. I tried to remember exactly how long. A decade? More?

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Good At Falling

“Know what, mama? It’s a good thing I’m good at falling.”

In a flash, my daughter was back on her feet and just a few steps forward, she was letting herself sink into the snow once more. “I love this, mama! I’m so good at falling!”

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Anxious Co-Parent? Here’s How To Cope With Your Anxiety

What can an anxious co-parent do to feel less anxious around their ex?

What does it feel like to be an anxious co-parent? What can an anxious co-parent do to feel less anxious around their ex?

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