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In short: what's a girl supposed to do? How can I be a supportive of my cheating best friend while not supporting her actions?

I had no expectations beyond what happened, a one-night stand with a co-worker. How do I manage having to stay in contact and keep things professional?

I don't know if I should continue the friendship and accept my friend's apology for sexually assaulting me. I am still getting flashbacks and depression.

I have been with my husband for years. Porn has never been an issue. One night we watched it and now my husband is mad that I don't want to watch porn.

I don't want to make my friend choose between me and her boyfriend. Yet, I think their relationship is deeply unhealthy and I worry about her.

I don't trust my husband. He had a years-long emotional affair that I ended up having to squash within this first week of our being married.

I just want something in my life to be happy and not dictated by some tyrannical religious presence. I'm afraid my parents will choose religion over me.

My husband and I got married about three years ago - I adore him. But the longer we're together, the more I feel like I'm parenting my husband.