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I never realized that helping someone flip that internal switch may not lead to self-improvement.

Dating While (Semi) Damaged: Stop Trying To Change People

Dating While (Semi) Damaged is a column about returning to the dating world after an abusive relationship, offering insight and occasional advice. Read...
Erin Wisti    |   05.19.17   |   SHARE
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What to do if you don't have much experience in the relationship dept. (Image Credit: Unsplash/Chad Madden)

Ask Erin: Help! I Am 29, And I’ve Never Had A Boyfriend 

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.28.17   |   SHARE
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The perks of growing up include knowing what constitutes stupidity over boys.

10 Things That I've Done For Boys (That I'll NEVER Do Again)

Sometimes, I think back to all the ridiculous things I did for boys when I was younger and cringe. Societal expectations, insecurities, pressure from Read...
Gemma Hartley    |   03.15.17   |   SHARE
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 really want to meet him, but I don’t know what to do because of the pictures.

Ask Erin: How Do I Tell The Guy I Met On Tinder I'm Not The One In My Pictures?

Dear Erin, OK, I am sure I’m going to catch hell for this, but I created a fake profile on Tinder. I mean, the profile isn’t completely fake, but the Read...
Erin Khar    |   04.8.16   |   SHARE
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You deserve the best.

The 6 Most Important Traits To Look For In A Partner

Anyone can be “nice.” Nice involves a surface-level politeness that does not have to be genuine and it does not require empathy or integrity. Read...
Desiree Rabuse of The Good Men Project    |   11.2.15   |   SHARE
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If We All Knew THIS Simple Thing About Loving Men...

I dated a man who was slightly kind, but sort of a bad boy. He didn’t try very hard to get me and wasn’t very affectionate. He did just enough to get Read...
Angelica Bottaro of The Good Men Project    |   10.30.15   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin!: I Have Sexual Tension With A Friend, What Should I Do?

I thought dating was supposed to get easier as I got older! I have a close friend and here has definitely been some attraction (well on my part for Read...
Erin Khar of RarelyWrongErin    |   10.29.15   |   SHARE
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Some helpful advice.

How To Consciously Date An African-American Man

As an African-American woman, I sympathize greatly with the plight of Black men in America. The most troubling issue for me is the slanted press and Read...
Jordannah Elizabeth    |   10.12.15   |   SHARE
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