Gigi Engle

Honestly, I’d say about 90% of the sex I have in my long-term monogamous relationship is “vanilla.” We are, believe it or not, a normal couple who does normal sex things just like anyone else. We are two people who know what the other likes and we do those things.

If we stopped buying into the idea that it takes a relationship to be whole, we’d all be better people. I'm happy I'm single!

Recognizing your own faults in relationships is hard. Here are some definitive signs you’re actually the problem in your relationship.

I feel absolutely zero shame or embarrassment saying I am one hell of a badass bitch. I’m sure of myself and I know who I am. What many who know me don’t know is that when it comes to sex, I am a submissive. And there ain’t nothing wrong with that, honey.

Here is what it is like to date someone with anxiety (in my experience, anyway).

Being a woman who does not want to become a mother is still a bit of a cultural anomaly in 2017.

I’m talking about nagging. Men MUST stop using this word! Here's why.

Sex-related health advances, toys, and tech have come a long way from one-size-fits-all-condoms or vibrators that are just varying degrees of the same vibrating stick. NOT ANYMORE.

Certain qualities and personality traits are solid indicators of whether or not you can hack an LDR.

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