Gigi Engle

You can’t change a fuckboy.

Here’s the absolute truth: you cannot change a fuckboy unless he wants to change by himself. This is where girls get messed up. They think that a guy is going to change his crappy behavior for HER. This is not the case 99.9% of the time. If he’s a fuckboy, he’s not ready to stop being one. It doesn’t matter how great you are or how much you love him. Trust me.

He has to make that decision for himself.

If someone wants to be with you they should be obsessed with you. This person should not be telling you not to tag them in photos (so people can't see you're together), not texting you for days on end (and not caring if it upsets you), always making you come to his or her neighborhood because he or she doesn’t want to travel. A person who does this is NOT worth your time.

Women kind of get a shit deal when it comes to

Recognizing your own faults in relationships is hard. Here are some definitive signs you’re actually the problem in your relationship.

In order to develop a healthy relationship, you’ve got to give a little to get a little. Oral sex is all about giving.

An open letter to that guy at the gym who wants everyone to hear him grunting.

There is no position I despise quite like reverse cowgirl.

You don’t even have to be a good person to be incredible at sex, apparently (my ex proves this).

Breakups are emotionally charged experiences that leave us hollow and pretty messed up. It’s not to say we won’t come back better and stronger — we always do! But, we do some thoroughly toxic nonsense before we get to that place.

It’s no secret that sex ed is a mess.