Kristi Pahr

When my oldest son was a baby, my husband and I used to talk about what sports he would play.

As a mother of boys, I find this trend disturbing. Yes, we need to build up our girls. We need to empower them and teach them that they are capable and viable and powerful — that they are smart and that they matter. But we cannot devalue our boys in the process.

I’m frazzled, y’all; I’m a mess. I’m a basketcase of anxiety and stress and I need to chill.

It seems like everyone is an introvert these days.

I have to go shopping tomorrow and I’m dreading it.

I’m not a TV person. I used to be, but not so much anymore.

“Is she Black or white?” I asked another mom who was describing a little girl in her son’s class that she thought my family might know.