Little Bear Schwarz

“I actually like women who look like you.” How do I begin to explain what is wrong with that statement?

The building pressure of trying to find security and a future on my own, compounded with my heartbreak, caused me to snap.

Is this a thing that happens? Do people come out — or come BACK out — as cis? Is there a closet with a hidden door?

So the result, therefore, is a culture of “fans” considering us Sideshow Freaks — bearded ladies included — to be “neat” and “fun,” but not actually real.

You can’t just sit there and post links; you can’t just talk a big game. You have to walk the walk. Want to make the world a better place for us? Start listening to — and stop stonewalling — the women by your side.

If we were to cut off all of our favorite forms of media because they contained problematic elements, we would live in a very silent and still world.

At its core, body-autonomy—and feminism itself—is about giving women the benefit of the doubt that they can make up their own minds.

I’m not brave because I’m shameless, or superior, or strange. I’m brave because I’m afraid.

No, nothing will make you less of a woman. But nothing will make me more of one, either.

I appear to be someone whose queerness, hairiness, and chubbiness has been wholly embraced and celebrated. I must have the answers! I don't.