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People love giving me advice but I'm begging you, these are things I never want to hear again.

8 Things I Never Want To Hear, Ever Again

As a person who writes about relationships for a living, I might be one of the people least in need of all this well-meaning advice, which usually Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   09.13.17   |   SHARE
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I'm Into Vanilla Sex — Why Does That Make Me Weird?

Honestly, I’d say about 90% of the sex I have in my long-term monogamous relationship is “vanilla.” We are, believe it or not, a normal couple who Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.12.17   |   SHARE
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 Things took a dark turn when I was perusing a Facebook group for sex pos women.

Apparently, You Can Get Toxic Shock From Yoni Crystals Now?

I found that Yoni crystals can apparently put you at risk for toxic shock?!??! And I was like: WHAAAAAT?!?!!?!? Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.5.17   |   SHARE
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This isn’t highschool; I’m not hosting a sleepover.

Sleepovers Are For Children: In Defense Of Hitting It And Quitting It

Spoon your pillow instead. Read...
Peta Serras of SHESAID    |   09.1.17   |   SHARE
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Sex, Shame, And Sex-Esteem: Unlearning Harmful Attitudes Toward Sexuality

It’s time we stop teaching shame and start spending more time fostering healthy sexual identities in young girls. Read...
Ambreia Meadows-Fernandez    |   08.31.17   |   SHARE
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We know that mood, timing, desires, limits, as well as other prominent things like language barrier and sexual preference,  can quickly turn a “maybe” into “not an option.”

From Monogamy To Open Marriage: Wasting Time At A Swinger Club

A night at a swinger club does not always live up to expectations. Read...
Eva Giunto    |   08.30.17   |   SHARE
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Sex positive does not mean I’m always available for sex.

The Complicated Intersection Of Being Female, Sex Positive, And Monogamous AF

It is a strange thing to find oneself at the tentative intersection of being female, sex positive, and in a long-term, monogamous relationship. Read...
Gigi Engle    |   08.29.17   |   SHARE
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Only very brave people have the courage to be vulnerable.

The Science Of Vulnerability: Why Crying In Front Of Your Partner Strengthens Your Bond

Pretending you don’t have feelings doesn’t pay off. Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   08.28.17   |   SHARE
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