fat positive

Like many women and girls, I was taught that confidence is a commodity that we can use to attain romantic and sexual attention from men. We spend a lot of money and energy trying to capture that elusive sense that we are worth a damn. But for me, healing has become my primary focus and it has led to major shifts in my sense of self, more clarity about what I need, and a deeper relationship to my desire.

There’s a new hashtag campaign for this Spring/Summer season, and it encourages its participants to do just what it says: simply live #FatAndFree.

This week I went to a networking event and had feelings about it. This is the story of those feelings. 

True allyship is often done behind the scenes.

The first time I heard about the #DropThePlus campaign I was of two minds.

Fancy Feast is smart, funny, entertaining, and gorgeous. I don't have anything else to say.

I spent most of last week in a southern California heat wave.

Yellow is a BIG color this year, but guess what — we don't see much of it in plus-sized fashion. Surprised? Unfortunately, neither are we. If you’re dying for a little bit of inspiration and a few options, look no further!