Aja Barber

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Can women have it all? Just kidding! I hate that question!

Can we all agree that whether in public or private spaces, don’t put your feet in other people’s spaces and keep your shoes off the furniture?

Have we all been problematic in the past? Oh hell yes. I know I have.

It’s going to be a very frugal holiday season in 2017. Let’s get crafting and make homemade holiday presents for everyone!

I first met Darlene Howell McNerney through my sister.

“I love my husband President Barack Obama and our children, Sasha and Malia,” ”

In 2015, to be a woman (and a black woman at that) among the general public means having to keep your defenses up.

I may not be thrilled to vote for her, but I’ll be damned if I’m going to let the misogyny and toxic masculinity we fight so hard against control the campaign narrative of the first major woman presidential candidate.

We can never get enough handy gift guides, so we asked our lovely writer Aja what she has planned for her holiday shopping this year.