Sex + Love

Abuse survivors should not have to charm their way to empathy.

Dating While (Semi) Damaged: On Being An Imperfect Victim

A low opinion of my character should not translate to assuming I would lie about abuse, or that I somehow deserved abuse.

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Anger and blame aren’t helping you in any way, shape or form.

Reasons Some Women Hang Onto Blame And Anger After A Divorce

Sometimes a woman gets stuck in blame and anger after divorce because it’s far too painful to look at themselves and the role they played in the end of their marriage.

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"I'm not sure whether or not you can get addicted to a lube made from a drug, but I've been pretty hooked on this stuff ever since I first gave it a try."

This Is Your Vagina On Weed Lube

Operating your vagina without taking advantage of the latest sex products on the market is kind of like still using a flip phone.

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Why did the idea of a relationship with Oliver go from plausible to absurd when I learned he was five years younger than I’d thought?

So This Is What It Feels Like To Be A Cougar 

I’d like nothing more than to hit a pause button and insert an extra five years just like this one into my life. Dating a younger man could be a perfect way to do that.

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There is one word you probably don’t even know you’re using and it has to end.

Why Men Need To Stop Using The Word “Nagging” In Relationships

I’m talking about nagging. Men MUST stop using this word! Here's why.

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Would you date someone who has a good job, but zero retirement savings?

Dating Without A Safety Net

I logged onto Facebook and asked my friend network, “Would you date someone who has a good job, but zero retirement savings?” The response was deafening.

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I experience male and female attraction differently — though neither feels any less “natural” than the other.

Why I'm Coming Out As A Bisexual Woman

Chipping away at the problem of bisexual erasure starts with living truth out loud.

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Once you've finished untangling your finances from your former partner's, it's time to develop a long-term plan.

6 Steps To Getting Back On Track Financially After Divorce 

f you're going through or have recently finalized a divorce, here's what you need to know to make sure you land on your feet.

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