Sex + Love

While my post-OkCupid elation was temporary, I still value it.

Dating While (Semi) Damaged: OkCupid And Self-Esteem

Online dating is a form of personal marketing, which is why so many find it inorganic and unromantic. But self-promotion forces you to ponder certain questions. Why would anyone want to date you? What do you bring to a relationship? After the abuse, answering such questions was healing. It’s similar to the glimmer of hope you feel writing a cover letter, even in the depths of unemployment, as the task forces you to play up your best qualities. You have to reflect on your self-worth. It is required.

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We are not just women, we are also secret spies with fantastic bullshit detectors.

A Letter To My Friend's Ex-Boyfriend 

“To the man who broke my beautiful friend’s heart…”

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Essentially, to change your world, you have to change yourself.

How To Create The Relationship Of Your Dreams

Have the post-holiday engagement "forever-alone" blues? Here's how to create the relationship of your dreams.

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After coming through the initial shock and grief, I discovered an intoxicating sense of freedom.

How I Managed to Survive & Thrive After My Husband Left

Remember, nothing — no thought or situation — is permanent. Although it may be near impossible for you believe right now, this life will one day be your new normal.

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Sex on the beach is a fabulous cocktail, and that’s all it should ever be.

Sex Positions That Are The Worst 

Let’s be real, friends. All sex positions are not created equal. Sex is amazing and fun, but there are certain sexual situations and moves that are better than others.

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How to exit a toxic situation, ASAP.

Ask Erin: Help! My Husband And Daughter Are Having An Affair

I have been stuck in this nightmare for a year and I can't take another day. My husband and daughter are having an affair. I am desperate for help!

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Masturbation is the ultimate act of self-care.

Masturbation Tips For Every Woman 

Screw manicures and blowouts: masturbation is the ultimate act of self-care. It’s good for your health, and you should be doing it all the time.

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Focusing on changing someone allows wounds to fester.

10 Reasons You Have To Stop Trying To Change Someone

Trying to change someone is deadly to an intimate relationship.

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