Joni Edelman

When you push a small human out of your body, things tend to get a little weird.

Actually, no, I'm not a gluttonous moron.

1. All vaginas are good vaginas.

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Brangelina are splitting up. A sad day for them, a joyful day for single ladies everywhere.

Is that incense I smell? A drum circle in the distance perhaps? Chanting? Herbal potions? Perhaps a cauldron? Could it be homebirth?

At certain points in the month I definitely feel worse about my body. I'm much less confident and more prone to eating the wrong things, and not doing physical exercise.

If you decide pit or leg hair isn't a big deal, then bam! It's not a big deal.

The Interent is ugly sometimes. And raising kids using it doesn't always make it easier.

It doesn’t get any more difficult to insult ourselves, regardless of how old we are. It would be ideal if it got easier to respect ourselves, but it generally doesn’t do that either. Every year you age, and every year the aging you looks at the you of the years before and thinks, I can’t believe I thought I was fat/ugly/etc.